Pleasure by Proxy
I make no secret of the fact that I get a kick out of seeing
other people succeed in their running, whether this is one of our fast club
runners achieving a new PB or someone completing their first parkrun. More than anything though, I like it when I
can be involved – for example, just being on a run with someone who is
completing their longest distance to date. It’s a great feeling to experience
their delight at their achievement.
This year, I have had the privilege of running alongside 3
people as they completed their first marathons.
These were 3 very different experiences and I wouldn’t have missed any
of them.
Boston (UK) Marathon – 17th
April 2017 - with Chris.
This happened by accident really. I had signed up the Blackpool
marathon and Chris decided to do the training with me with a view to entering the
marathon if the training went ok. I had the
idea that Chris might bring my pace along (he is a bit quicker than me) and I
might be able to encourage him on the distance, having already had the experience
of 26.2 miles. In the event, by the time
Chris decided he’d enter, Blackpool was full!
So I deferred my entry to 2018 and we both entered Boston, which was a
week earlier.
The Training
We initially started our training running all the way, but
became fascinated by the run-walk (3 mins run, 1 min walk) strategy when we
noticed that on a 16 mile run, Sarah had completed it on a run-walk strategy in
about the same time that we ran the whole thing. Sarah was training for Rotterdam marathon. We did a walk-run with Sarah and Mike (about
18 miles as I recall) and it felt so much better – not easy, but easier. You still have to cover the miles, but there’s
something helpful about the legs having a different motion every 3
minutes. In addition, psychologically,
it breaks it up. We decided to have one
more 16 mile run and then decide whether to switch. At that point, Chris’s thinking was that
running another ten miles on top of that seemed pretty daunting, but
run-walking it seemed much more manageable.
So we completed the training on the run-walk plan, helped
along by being able to join Sarah on some of her runs and by having other
people join us for part of some of the longer runs. This helped to break the
runs up a bit. On our longest training run, we did 4 miles with just
the two of us, then met Jo-Mo for 6 miles, then a couple of miles on our
own, followed by the rest of the run with Nadine. It helped the miles fly by.
Throughout the training Chris was plagued with some
niggles and bits of pain that came and went.
I think this was simply a product of increasing the mileage but it
probably wasn’t helped by some of the
training routes I planned. On a 22 mile
run, perhaps running uphill from the Salutation at Nettleton to Caistor Top at
about 15 miles in wasn’t the best idea! Fueling
was difficult too and the whole process was a learning curve. Chris already
knew from experience that he didn’t get on with energy gels and even shot
blocks gave him upset stomach. Eventually he settled on jelly babies and some
soft jelly sweets from the Spar shop.
The Marathon
Boston (UK) is a marathon, a half marathon and a fun run
(3k). Jo-Mo told us quite near to race
day that she had entered the HM, which would mean that she could run with us
for about the first 6 or 7 miles (after this, the route split so we would have
to part company). Strangely, although
the Marathon and HM started at the same time, the start point for the half, was
about 500m behind the start point for
the marathon. This was bad enough for
fast runners, such as Andrew, who had entered the HM, trained for a good time
and then found himself quickly catching and then having to weave through the
slower marathoners before finding any open space to effectively start his race. For poor Jo, it was possibly even worse. Although Chris and I were doing a run-walk
strategy, we had decided to run the first mile.
We planned to do this steadily, but you know how it is when you get
carried along with others! Jo could very
soon see us, but catching us was a different matter – she got her mile PB that
day, just trying to meet up with us. She
said that by the time we’d done a mile and were on run-walk, she would just
about reach us when we were walking and then we’d start running again!
Things went quite well while we were with Jo although I could
tell by Chris’s face that something wasn’t quite right. It turned out that a familiar niggle in his knee
had surfaced at mile 2, so this was a bit worrying. By the time we reached the point where Jo
would leave us, he was in considerable pain, but reported that it didn’t hurt
whilst he was running, only when he was walking. Jo reported afterwards that when he said
that, a look of horror appeared across my face as it dawned on me that I was
going to be running a lot more of this
thing than I had planned to.
We said our goodbyes to Jo-Mo and I asked Chris what he
wanted to do. “It’s OK while I’m
running. Shall we just run?” I said, “OK
then” and probably managed a smile, but was thinking, “oh shit”, because this
would mean I was going to be pushing myself to keep up with his ‘steady’
pace. After running a couple of miles I
was relieved to see Team Bates and get some encouragement; “you’re making good
time, aren’t you?” from Claire ... Ian taking photos and getting some hugs and
smiles from Martha and Edith.
Then we ploughed on.
We ran some more miles. And then
ran some more. It was too fast for me,
but Chris was going well. He was able to
talk, I could just about grunt. I asked
him to talk about something to distract me and he told me a story about when ‘a
sixteen year old girl met a seventeen year boy’ and how they got together...
and got married... and what happened after that.... leading to how we ended up
running a marathon together. Well that
was it! I was in floods!
This was at about the halfway point. I still had the energy to muck about at this point. Not for much longer! |
It was good to see Chris going so well, but I was at the end of myself. Thank goodness for seeing Team Bates and John Rainsforth on several occasions for some more distraction. Lots of me was aching, I knew a blister was forming. “Just focus on your elbow”, I told myself. “It doesn’t hurt!”
We reached a water station with about 5 or 6 miles to go and
I just had to have a little break to take on a gel and have a drink. I had a little breather, thanking the marshals
and getting ready to dig in again. Unfortunately that stop was Chris’s undoing
and I regret it now. On reflection, when he was going well, I should have just
told him to carry on by himself and then slowed down to a more comfortable pace
for me. But hindsight is a wonderful
thing, isn’t it? We had always planned
to run it together so that’s what we did.
When I stopped, Chris stopped to a walk and just paced there until I was
ready to go (less than a couple of minutes – maybe only a minute) but then when
he tried to start running again, the pain was severe. The rest of the race was a combination of his
knee seizing up or giving him pain depended on whether he tried to run or walk.
We had to walk most of the last 4 or 5 miles with the odd run
interspersed. The last couple of miles
were never-ending and his head started getting in the way, especially once he
realised we wouldn’t crack 5 hours, which had been what we hoped to achieve
fairly easily. He’d be the first to
admit that he saw his arse! I, on the
other hand, was feeling full of energy now I’d had a rest. What a bizarre run!
With about a mile to go, we came out into a kind of village
green area. There were no marshals, not
signage and 3 possible ways we could have gone.
That was a miserable moment. We looked at the few other runners around
us and everyone was shrugging their shoulders (so it wasn’t just me with my total
lack of a sense of direction!). Luckily,
there was a chap with his family, spectating and eating ice cream (I always
remember they were eating ice cream) who
pointed and shouted “that way.” Chris
kept trying to run, but was now also out of energy and to be frank, quite fed
up. He was already saying, “I’m not
doing another one and I’m pulling out of Dukeries”.
Eventually, after what seemed like hours, we turned a corner
and could see the familiar sea of blue CRC hoodies - such a welcome sight at the
end of any race. I said something like, “look,
look, here the all are, come on, let’s run this last bit....” and we came in to
shouts cheers and cameras from our running buddies and friends .... Jo-Mo and
Chris, Sarah and Mike, Rach, Laura, Andrew, Baz and Cheryl, and Team Bates
(Claire, Ian, Martha and Edith).
After the finish, Chris was still insistent that he wasn’t
doing another marathon and was pulling out of Dukeries, but this was a
knee-jerk reaction (no pun intended) to having dealt with quite a degree of
pain, as well as feeling quite faint at the finish (I’m not going to harp on
about this bit as he doesn’t like a fuss about it and these issues are now
resolved).
The day after, he went out and bought a Lay-Z-Spa and as we
chilled out in the tub a few days later, he started to come round. A month later, he ran his first Ultra –
Dukeries 30 with Sarah and me and declared it much easier and much more fun
than a road marathon.
Dukeries Selfie - a month after Chris's first marathon. |
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